Showing posts with label Mentors. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mentors. Show all posts

Saturday, April 6, 2024

The Bible Teacher: Gratitude for the Life of Bob Waldron

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I have had many teachers, mentors, role models, and encouragements, too many for my mortal and feeble mind to recall. Many of my teachers I have never met — they were transferred to the Church Triumphant long before I was born or became aware of their work. I look forward to thanking them face to face someday. Others I have only known in passing. If I were to mention them, they would not know how great an impression they made on me or how profoundly their work has helped me. But there are certain foundational influences, teachers without whom we would be unprepared for everyone who came later. I have mentioned before that at this stage of my life, most of what I know about the Bible I did not learn from my parents. They could not teach me what they themselves did not know. But I would not have learned what I have learned without their influence. Their early impressions and instruction were formative for me in a way that enabled whatever good came later, and for that I am and always shall be grateful.


When I think of the men who taught me the most about the Bible, there are three names that come to mind. None of them taught me the theology I affirm today — and yet, in an important sense, that is exactly what they taught me. They gave me the foundational tools for reading, studying, and understanding the story of Scripture. They taught me to memorize God’s word. They taught me to recognize its structure, themes, and patterns. They reinforced what my parents had given me: a love for Scripture and an absolute confident in its inspired, inerrant, inescapable truth and authority. None of these men were Calvinists, and each of them were (or would have been) concerned that I became one. But I never would have gotten where I am today without them. It was believing, applying, and pursuing the faith and disciplines they taught me that led me to a covenantal understanding of redemption.


I learned on Friday that Bob Waldron had died. He died a week earlier, but I had not heard. I do not remember the last time I spoke to Brother Waldron, but it has been many years. I continued to listen to him from afar, to review the books he wrote with his sweet wife, and to apply the principles he taught to me, but it may have been close to twenty years since I saw him in person. He might be one of the men who would not recognize how great his influence on my life actually was, but he was inarguably the most foundational Bible teacher I ever had and, apart from Tom Holley, the greatest single influence in how I read, study, organize, and understand Scripture to this day.


I was in Brother Waldron’s orbit as a child. He and his wife visited my parents’ home, and I heard him preach in gospel meetings. It was not until I became a preacher that I really got to know him. He came to the Elliottsville Church of Christ, where his son and daughter-in-law were members, to preach a meeting while I was there, and I got to spend time with him. I had already been exposed to his “17 Bible Periods” approach to Bible study, and I recognized that this man knew the Bible story better than anyone I had ever met. He seemed to have vast portions of the Bible committed to memory. In my conversations with him during that meeting, I learned that it seemed that way because he actually did.


Bob Waldron showed me that the Bible is one, grand, interconnected story, a story of redemption that can be studied and understood as one text, one unfolding narrative, rather than merely as a collection of documents, verses, and disconnected pieces. He transformed the way I read Scripture, even now, and there is no doubt that his influence and methods enabled me to discover the patterns of redemptive history that later led to my embrace of a more covenantal and historical understanding of the faith. I am sure Brother Waldron would have wanted no credit for my departure from a tradition he (and I) loved, but it would be wicked not to acknowledge my debt to him. The “Bible Foundations” curriculum that I have taught for more than two decades is simply my adaptation and development of the system I learned from Brother Waldron. He helped me see the outline. He put all the puzzle pieces on the table and began to fit them together so that the image emerged. There were a few pieces I later had to spin in order to fit them in correctly, but the Lord used Brother Waldron to show me the big picture.


Bob Waldron was the first man to expose me to memorizing large sections of Scripture, the discipline of commiting entire Bible books to memory. He explained to me his method and the rationale behind it — memorizing entire epistles in order to meditate on them in a focused way, only to abandon the regular review necessary to retain perfect recitation in order to move on and learn another book in the same way. I remember thinking, then and for many years after, what a waste it seemed to spend so many hours memorizing a book only to forget it. I would do better than that. I would memorize books and review them every week, never forgetting any of the chapters I learned. I succeeded for a number of years, then my kids got older, my responsibilities in the church increased, and I got older too. I discovered that Brother Waldron was even wiser than I had recognized.


Bob Waldron never confronted me about my pride and self-righteousness, though I am confident he saw it. I know when and where he would have. He probably did not believe he had the kind of relationship with me to be able to address it that day. We were not close, though he always greeted me warmly and spoke to me kindly. But his demeanor, humility, and kindness in contrast to my foolishness and arrogance that day remains a painful indictment in my memory that prompts new repentance as often as I think of it. Whatever pharisaical attitudes I may have learned while in the Churches of Christ, I did not learn them from Brother Waldron. He was a gentle, godly man so far as I knew him, and I can only aspire to be more like him. I will never imagine that anything I believe today or will ever do can make me better than him.


Scripture commands us to honor our father and mother, and this has more to teach us than merely that we ought to take care of our biological parents in their old age. Robert Waldron probably did not know how profoundly he impacted my life. He might have thought we were only acquaintances. But he will always be a father in the faith to me. I thank God for him and that he has now entered into rest and the beginning of an eternal reward. –JME

Thursday, January 27, 2022

Gregg Strawbridge: An Appreciation

I cannot say for sure what year it was. It would have been between 2003-2005. I was the minister of East Columbus Church of Christ in Columbus, MS and was working in my office at the church when the phone rang. The man on the other end explained that he was visiting family while on vacation and was looking for a Church of Christ minister who knew something about the history of the movement. My car was scheduled to be serviced, so I dropped it off and arranged for the caller to pick me up at the dealership. We went to a Mexican restaurant and sat down to eat and to talk. The man was a Presbyterian minister from Pennsylvania. His name was Gregg Strawbridge.


Gregg was the first Presbyterian I ever met, the first Reformed Christian I ever talked to. I had grown up in the Churches of Christ, and even though I had been called to full-time ministry in those churches in 1998, my contact with Christians in other communions was very limited. That was partly due to the fact that I didn’t think there were Christians in other communions, at least, not any faithful Christians. I had been taught to believe--and for many years taught--that the Churches of Christ were the only faithful churches, and not even all of them qualified. Denominationalists were in denominations because they did not believe the Bible. Some of them might have been scripturally baptized, usually if they had been baptized in a Church of Christ, but most of them were in no meaningful sense Christians. That was my frame of reference when I met Gregg Strawbridge. Those beliefs and assumptions took a long time to change, many years in fact, but I can tell you when they began to change. It was when I ate lunch at a Mexican restaurant and spent a couple of hours talking to Gregg Strawbridge.


When Gregg picked me up for lunch, he was immediately friendly, kind, and respectful. He did not treat me the way that I viewed him. He treated me as a brother in Christ, as a Christian. We sat down and began to talk, and God began planting seeds of grace in my heart. I had no idea how profoundly that conversation with Gregg would shape me, but I continued to think about it for many years. He had asked to meet to talk about the history of the Churches of Christ. The most prominent organizers of what became known as the Stone-Campbell Restoration Movement were originally Presbyterians, and Gregg had been doing research on that topic. I was not an expert, but I was a fifth generation member of the Church of Christ and had done a lot of reading. We talked about the Churches of Christ and Thomas and Alexander Campbell, but we quickly moved on to other topics. Maybe it was because I didn’t have much knowledge to share. Maybe Gregg realized I could not be as helpful as he had hoped. Or maybe he simply loved talking about the Scriptures. Whatever the reason, we began discussing the Bible, and the conversation that followed began, slowly, to change my life.


The Lord had already begun exposing me to Reformed theology, though I did not realize it. I had read J. I. Packer’s Knowing God and Jerry Bridges’s The Practice of Godliness some years before and was profoundly impacted by both books. I first heard John MacArthur preaching on the radio while serving a little church south of Birmingham, AL from 1999-2002. I would tune in every week as I drove to teach a Bible study. I didn’t know who MacArthur was. I didn’t even know his name for several weeks because I never heard the beginning or end of the program. But the sermon in the middle was thoroughly biblical. I am ashamed to admit how astonished I was that a preacher outside the Church of Christ could be so committed to Scripture. After listening for several weeks, I concluded this radio preacher might even be a Christian! It would be many years before I realized how many Reformed authors and influences God had placed in my life, years before I attempted to preach through a book of the Bible as I heard John MacArthur do, years before I realized these men all agreed on the sovereign and efficacious nature of God’s saving grace.


Gregg did not disparage or directly confront any of my idiosyncratic and unbiblical beliefs that day. He simply talked to me about the Bible. He pointed out things I had never noticed in texts I had read all my life. He listened to me when I spoke and treated me as a brother worthy of respect, even though I didn’t know what I was talking about. He raised questions that would remain with me for many years only to bear fruit at a later point in time. I had no idea that I would ever leave the Churches of Christ, no idea that one day I would be the Reformed pastor reaching out to ministers in the Churches of Christ, no idea that my meeting with Gregg would become an important way station on my journey to the Celestial City. But since embracing the doctrines of grace in 2011-2012 and joining a Reformed communion in 2016, I have told dozens and dozens of people my story about meeting Gregg Strawbridge.


When I realized almost ten years later what God was doing in my life in leading me to the Reformed faith, I reached out to Gregg online. I did not expect him to remember me, but he did, and I thanked him for the ways God had used that first meeting to bless and encourage me. He rejoiced with me in how the Lord continued to lead and bless my life and ministry and in the changes I was making. We remained in irregular contact by email after that. I would reach out to him periodically to express appreciation for his influence in my life and to share with him what I was learning and questions I had. I contacted him when I came to love the Book of Common Prayer and began learning about Reformed liturgy. I shared with him sermon notes and blog articles on various topics, and he continued to encourage me in various ways. I listened to his debates and sermons and continue to learn from him even today. I was last in contact with him in August of last year. I used some of his material on reconciliation in preparing a workshop on biblical peacemaking, and I sent him what I developed and acknowledged my debt to him and his work.


I had no idea where my first conversation with Gregg would lead or how it would continue to shape me even after I became Reformed. My contact with Gregg was a major factor in my own pursuit of Reformed catholicity. His grace toward me was a model I continue to aspire to but consistently fall short of. He did not have to treat me with the kindness that he did. I did not recognize him as a brother. I thank God that he recognized me.


When I woke up this morning, I learned that Gregg had a massive heart attack and died on Wednesday. We were not close friends. I never met his family, visited his church, or saw him in person since that one visit in Mississippi almost twenty years ago. But I have never forgotten our conversation, and I will continue to thank God for it and for him as long as I live.

ALMIGHTY and everliving God, we yield unto thee most high praise and hearty thanks, for the wonderful grace and virtue declared in all thy saints, who have been the choice vessels of thy grace, and the lights of the world in their several generations; most humbly beseeching thee to give us grace so to follow the example of their stedfastness in thy faith, and obedience to thy holy commandments, that at the day of the general Resurrection, we, with all those who are of the mystical body of thy Son, may be set on his right hand, and hear that his most joyful voice: Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. Grant this, O Father, for the sake of the same, thy Son Jesus Christ, our only Mediator and Advocate. Amen. (1928 BCP)

Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints. (Psalm 116:15)

--JME